The Day I was Diagnosed

Finding an OBGyn to diagnose me with Vulvodynia was hard. Here's what I recommend for you.


The G-Spot Has Been Renamed

2017 was an interesting year for women's bodies, especially for those of us in the Sexual Education field.  Not only has there been a lot of discussion about women's health in the political arena, researchers have decided to rename one of our favorite body parts: the G-Spot. What Is The G-Spot The G-Spot, or Gräfenberg Spot, [...]

Sex Therapy Pt. 2

My friend put it perfectly in her response to my stressed anticipation of my first Sex Therapy session.  "[It] becomes real and you have to confront it.  Maybe that's a good thing, though.  You have to deal with it.  It is a part of your life, whether you like it or not.  It does affect [...]

Sex Therapy

I'm grumpy. I'm upset. Everything generally sucks right now. Except that it doesn't.  It's all mindset, but I can't seem to get around it.  In a few hours I'm going to see a Sex Therapist for the first time.  I cry at the OBGyn (and generally have road rage on the drive over) so I'm [...]

Forced Demisexual

I visited the OBGyn, today.  I didn't realize why I was so aggravated at the other drivers until I was already there and near tears in the exam room.  I didn't have an exam this time, but I wish I had (bear with me).  An exam would have been done had I felt any change [...]